Identity, at a glance

Bonagus Danveer
3 min readSep 26, 2021

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The existentialist crisis that experienced by young people today may be seen as both common and unusual case. In the sense that, this phenomenon is experienced by the majority of this group also it’s uncommon for those who are entangled to fall and drag on.

Unfortunately, it also happened to me, I don’t remember when or where it came from at first, but what is clear is the accumulation of unresolved problems then turned into a continuous mountain of stress.

In responding to it, of course, everyone’s decision will be different, some buried it deep and face it alone, some share it with someone they have trust, some don’t care or don’t think it exists. The solution chosen is of course different for each individual.

The solution and resolved a problem only yourself can feel. Because no individual can predict what is in his heart, you may observe someone appear to agree and seem to be okay, but the real agreement are not at all.

Mental is one that can guide us to get solutions to various life problems.

Mental tacked from our habits and willpower towards a better direction. Although the assessment is based on the observations of people other than us, the character that is reflected will undoubtedly become self-identity.

Good or bad, right or wrong, eventually becomes a mystery of life whose exact answer is sometimes limited to what we agree on regardless of the ultimate truth.

Identity is a provision in order to be able to navigate the waves of the ocean of life, which is not friendly but even more vicious.

Just being nice for public recognition is not enough, especially if it is a fake, because the more difficult and complicated it also adds to the mental burden, and most of them end badly, I think we all agree.

What is good is when you are underestimated but insist on continuing to improve, aware that you are wrong.

Getting better is very difficult, it really requires strong determination and consistency throughout the process and it will definitely be sustainable.

But I believe that in the future the gates of happiness will welcome then the truth can open the eyes of people who have been completely blinded all this time.

Right now even me still not considered, I admit that it is a personal mistake for still often let go, less willing to learn, and are still engrossed in ignorance.

In fact, it is difficult to improve and develop, if in theory it will be easy to say. however, at least if you will, just believe this sentence.

It will be even more difficult in the future if we don’t try to improve, the more procrastination we also automatically get the less age.

Have we been able to more participate and contribute, apart from asking too much (for personal interest)?

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Bonagus Danveer
Bonagus Danveer

Written by Bonagus Danveer

nope, just an ordinary old soul.

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